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What The Fall Teaches About Marriage

The Fall took place when God’s established roles for husbands and wives were swapped. Eve usurped Adam’s headship and Adam submitted to Eve.

The Fall took place when the devil attacked Adam’s headship. Genesis 3:1–4 says:

Now the serpent was more cunning than any beast of the field which the Lord God had made. And he said to the woman, “Has God indeed said, ‘You shall not eat of every tree of the garden’?”
And the woman said to the serpent, “We may eat the fruit of the trees of the garden; but of the fruit of the tree which is in the midst of the garden, God has said, ‘You shall not eat it, nor shall you touch it, lest you die.’”
Then the serpent said to the woman, “You will not surely die.”

There’s an important contrast between the creation account in Genesis 2 and The Fall in Genesis 3:

  • In Genesis 2:16, “the Lord God commanded the man.”
  • In Genesis 3:1 and 4, “[the serpent] said to the woman.”

God spoke to Adam, but the devil spoke to Eve. Why? The devil knew Eve was “the weaker vessel” (1 Peter 3:7). Part of the reason God placed Eve under Adam’s headship was for her own protection.

The Choices Adam and Eve Faced at The Fall

When the devil tempted Eve, she had two choices:

  • She could trust her husband who had given her God’s command, thereby submitting to him.
  • She could trust the devil, submitting instead to him.

Sadly, Genesis 3:6 reveals her choice: “So when the woman saw that the tree was good for food, that it was pleasant to the eyes, and a tree desirable to make one wise, she took of its fruit and ate. She also gave to her husband with her, and he ate.”

At this point, Adam also had two choices:

  • He could obey God who gave him the command, thereby submitting to Him.
  • He could obey his wife, submitting instead to her.

Adam chose to obey his wife instead of obeying God. Genesis 3:9–12 gives us the outcome of that decision:

Then the Lord God called to Adam and said to him, “Where are you?”
So he said, “I heard Your voice in the garden, and I was afraid because I was naked; and I hid myself.”
And He said, “Who told you that you were naked? Have you eaten from the tree of which I commanded you that you should not eat?”
Then the man said, “The woman whom You gave to be with me, she gave me of the tree, and I ate.”

It’s significant that the conversation about The Fall took place between God and Adam. God didn’t address Eve until Genesis 3:16 when He explained how sin’s curse would affect women.

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English phrases from Scripture

English phrases from Scripture

There are a number of English phrases from Scripture that we use regularly. Most people don’t even know these phrases come from the Bible! Here are a few:

  • “A drop in the bucket” comes from Isaiah 40:15—“Behold, the nations are as a drop in a bucket…”
  • “At their wits’ end” comes from Psalm 107:27—“They reel to and fro… And are at their wits’ end.”
  • “The blind leading the blind” comes from Matthew 15:14—“they are blind leaders of the blind…”
  • “Seeing the handwriting on the wall” comes from Daniel 5 when Belshazzar saw the hand write on the wall.
  • “Nimrod” means, “idiot, jerk.” This insulting title comes from the evil man in Genesis 10.
  • “Jezebel” means, “an impudent, shameless, or morally unrestrained woman.” Nobody gives their daughter this name, because Jezebel was the evil wife of Ahab.

Of the phrases from Scripture my favorite is…

We talk about people “cutting corners.” This means doing something in the easiest, quickest, cheapest way possible. Often this affects the quality of the finished product.

David cut off a corner of Saul’s robe. If David killed Saul it would have been “cutting a corner” that greatly affected the king David could have been. Trials have a refining work in our lives and David had the opportunity to remove a terrible trial from his life. That trial was Saul, but removing Saul would’ve been removing the work God wanted to do through Saul. This would’ve greatly hindered David’s refinement.

Discuss: Can you thin of any other English phrases from Scripture?